10 October 2019

Saying NO to Child Marriage in Indonesia: Fatma’s Story

Fatma*, 16, was riding her motorbike home after school one afternoon. There were bumps here and there along the main road in her small village in Bone, but Fatma was used to them. Her white and blue uniform fluttered in the wind behind her. She was happy and content. Once she arrived, Fatma parked the motorbike and walked inside, thinking that it…, Bone: the region with the highest child marriage rate in Indonesia, In Bone, the second largest district in South Sulawesi, child marriage is even more prevalent compared to other regions in Indonesia. Deep-rooted traditions and close relationships between families, especially among parents, contributed to the high number. “There is pressure from parents,” said Aminuddin, a part-time counselling teacher at Fatma’s…, Fatma ‘negotiates’ with her parents, Fatma’s response came as a surprise to her mother, Sahari, who then relented. “We’re happy with the proposal,” she said. “But Fatma is the one who will be going through the marriage. And she didn’t want it. So, we turned it down.” Fatma was elated, but she quickly realized that there are many girls that are not as lucky. To Fatma, that moment…, The challenges behind child marriage, Indonesia’s Marriage Act used to allow girls to marry, with parental permission, starting from 16 years old but a recent amendment in September 2019 raised that minimum age to 19 years old – the same age as boys. UNICEF welcomes this change. However, in practice, parents can apply for “dispensation” to a court that will issue a legal permission…, Empowering girls, Fatma’s courage to take control over her future shows that girls can ‘choose to stand for themselves’. Nevertheless, there are still many girls who find themselves in the same situation and are unable to break away from child marriage practice. Some of them are afraid they might hurt their parents, while some struggle to voice their opinions. “…, How do we change this situation?, Life Skills Education is a UNICEF-supported initiative that aims to create change. It is also part of BERANI, a program where UNICEF collaborates with UNFPA, the Canadian Government, and the National Development Planning Agency (Bappenas). Implemented from May 2019 and concluded at the end of 2020, BERANI taught girls and boys about menstrual…, Challenges in Scaling-Up Life-Skills Education, Today, the schools that have adopted Life-Skills Education program need more capacity, expand their content, and enlarge their network. Recent data show that the COVID-19 pandemic has slowed down, even stopped albeit temporarily, the program’s activities in Bone because of mobility restrictions and social distancing policies. Such disruption can…, How You Can Help, Thanks to the generous contributions of individual donors, and the collaboration with teachers, partners, and other actors who share the same concern towards Indonesia’s future, UNICEF has been able to help Fatma and other girls to say no to child marriage through BERANI and other programs. However, the road towards equality is long and winding.…